hello my friends!! i hope everyone is well on this fine sunday morning!! i was chatting with a friend the other day who was telling me how unhappy is in his relationship. i asked him why he was still there, and he did have a real solid answer. just that he was used to it. i met another person last night who had rercently ended an unhappy relationship...that she will probably go back to, simply because she was used to it. we do that. we stay in unhappy places unwilling to try something new because we are used to what we already have. we feel safe. break our routine and plunge into the unknown? OH MY!! that would involve taking a chance! starting all over. maybe getting hurt again. THIS hurt we have already learned to deal with. but come on people! without the possibility of pain, there can be no possibility of joy or real love. so here is today's quote and from a most unlikely source-the tv show ungly betty-hey she said it best:
i've had to say good-bye more times then i would've liked. but we can all say that. and no matter how many times we do it-it still stings. and though we'll never forget what we've given up, we owe it to oourselves to keep moving forward. what we can't do is live our lives always afraid of the next good-bye, because chances are they're not going to stop. the trick is to recognize when a good-bye can be a good thing. when its the chance to start again.
until next time...safe journey.
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