hello my friends!! whether you are single or not i think it is fair to say that falling in love rarely involves the brain LOL..right?? i heard this quote and i wish i could remember where but i don't so i can't give credit..but it says
the bigger your investment, the bigger your return. but you have to be willing to take a chance. you have to understand you might lose it all. but if you take a chance, if you invest wisely, the payoff might just surprize you.
if you invest wisely. hmmmm, that implies that you did your research, weighed your options, and NOW you are ready to dive in. LOL. it means you used your head and not your heart. if we actually did that to chose our mates then maybe we wouldn't see such a high divorce rate? of course i am only guessing here, just my opinion. but thats not really the way it works and we all know it. we use our hearts and thats why they get broken. making decisions with our heads are the most difficult, whats best for the kids? the marraige? best for me? you all know what i mean....hence todays quote:
perhaps the most difficult choices to make are the ones that deny us those things that our heart wants the most. because it has been said without reason nor prudence the heart wants what the heart wants, and more often then not it will not be denied. (in plain site)
the heart has no reason in which reason knows nothing...blaise pascal
until next time...safe journey.
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Hi Donna, Let me try this again. I lost the last comment. It never comes out the same the second time around. First let me tell you I read all the prior blogs you wrote. You are quite the interesting person and how you preceive your thoughts and then convey them. I think you should write a book.
I respect your comments so here is mine on falling in love.
Do you believe in love at first sight? I absolutley do. I can fall in love and let it be known in a second, a minute, a week. You get my point im sure. What can I fall in love with in a woman? Physical body? Yes. Intelligence? Yes, Spirituality? Yes, Depthness of the mind and soul? Yes. So falling in love is very easy to do. It's how to hold on to what you fell in love with in the first place. Why would I have to wait a month, maybe 2 months, a year or maybe 2 years to tell someone I love them. I'm going to know very soon if I love this person for the reason I believe. Now of course, it takes 2 too tango. What if the other person is slow to the draw or asleep at the wheel? That means this person has to give it a chance as you say invest some time. It could be a week. Do I have to be grilled or put on a stand or feel like I am on a job interview? No. Just be and let be and see where it goes. Life is too short. Each day is a new beginning (you said that before. Let each moment, each day evolve and watch the love grow like a bud sprouts in the spring. Two people will know very quickly if they have a chemistry/connection. If not, we move on. I'm sure there will be followers that do not agree and that is ok. We all have our opinions. I think Paul McCartney said it best. "Love the one your with"
Now keep your blogs coming. You inspire me.
Be well and enjoy your journey. I am as we all should.
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