all around me

hello my friends!!! is winter aalmost over yet?? maybe this crappy weather is why all these break ups are going on around me. wow...its the topic of almost every conversation i have. either someone's relationship is in peril, or someone is having their heart broken, or just some form of suffering along that line. this blog is dedicated to one of my friends in particular who is having an especially hard time accepting the end of his relationship. his X girlfriend just blindsided him with it and he never saw it coming, and i have a real problem with that because that's what ruins us good people. and ya i'm speaking for myself here too. we think everthing is going well and then wham you wake up one day and its over and you have no idea what hit you. the idea of ever starting over again is insane. why would anyone ever want to open themselves up to that kind of pain ever again?? especially when we can't even get the answers or the closure we need from the last one? (well thats another blog)...thats just the way its is, i don't have any good advice here guys, i'm sorry.

you love someone, you open yourself up to suffering, thats the sad truth. maybe you'll break their heart, maybe they'll break your heart, maybe you'll never be able to look at yourelf in the same way. those are the risks.
you see two people and you think "they belong together," but nothing happens. the thought of losing so much control over personal happiness is unbearable. that's the burden. like wings[-for instance]. they have weight. we feel that weight on our backs, but they are a burden that lifts us. a burden that allows us to fly. [thats what love is supposed to be. so we keep taking the risk.] (bones}

until next time...safe jouney.